A quote from The Riding Holiday Centre Manual came to mind after a discussion about organising a group ride turned to being told, in effect, that I should not expect riders to listen to instructions.
A certain frustration creeps from amongst my words in the book. After taking a thousand people on riding holidays I've seen most forms of misbehaviour. Everything from plain thoughtlessness to - incredibly - a selfish dumbass bitch woman who deliberately injured a driving horse. The longer I did that job, the more I loved my horses and the less fond I grew of humanity. Perhaps it was a good thing that I stopped working as a guide? At least I stopped before becoming some kind of hermit surrounded by animals. Which would have been easy.
The guests in the picture, incidentally, were exemplary. If you should see this - I'd ride with you again any day.
So here's the list - actually quite restrained given my experiences - from the book:
Etiquette: guests are reminded of the fundamentals of good riding etiquette. Sadly this does not always seem to be taught in riding schools anymore, nor insisted upon by every outfitter. The basics of etiquette presented to guests include:
- Waiting until everyone is mounted and ready before moving off. This includes moving off from gates, when the guide may need to remount after operating the gate;
- Allowing the guide to go first;
- Obtaining the assent of others in the group before increasing the pace;
- Warning other riders before passing them;
- Staying on the path and particularly not riding in hay meadows or crops;
- Never using a stick or other commands to speed up another rider’s horse;
- If a horses stops to stale, everyone in the group waits;
- When watering horses, everyone remains until the last horse has finished drinking; and
- Being ready to help another rider should he or she need help.