Anne asked the question: is life less stressful where you are, or is the stress level the same, just about different things? Your hay cart falls in a stream. That's probably right up there with a computer crash. I wonder if the stresses of an agrarian life, where you fix things with the sweat of your brow, which releases good stress-relieving chemicals in your brain, leads to a better quality of life -- if you can do without all the things that make our modern life easy. I realize I'm writing this to a man with an Internet connection, which may or may not qualify you to answer but I hope you will. I sometimes think that my grandparents, with their struggles in farming, weren't better off sitting on the porch and talk after a hard day than we are seeing the news on TV where mentally impaired women blown up as a way to kill innocent people.
That's an interesting question. Most people out here, in the deep countryside, are relatively free from stress. Life has its irritations, however the land and climate are good enough that almost everyone has enough food, fairly good health, a home and some money. The occasional hay cart falling into a river isn't welcome, however it doesn't mean starvation or poverty.
The other side of the coin is that levels of responsibility can be rather low. That is something that I notice as an employer, and that does raise my personal stress level. It can be quite difficult to get ordinary people to connect their actions now to what may happen later. This is also clearly visible on the roads, where common sense is not the most obvious attribute of most drivers.
Running a business creates similar issues to life in the West. People here tend to be more fatalistic than in the West, so they deal with problems in a somewhat different way, worrying less and perhaps also taking less precautions too.
Therefore many businesses seem to tick over, never earning a great deal, but fulfilling their owners' immediate needs. In a peasant society, where next year may bring war, plague or invasion, not taking work entirely seriously is an approach that has its merits. At the same time, most people know next to nothing about any news beyond the purely local. That way there is "less to worry about".
From my point of view, operating in a bureaucratic system where nobody seems to take the situation entirely seriously has great potential as a generator of stress. However, there are plenty of reasons why I enjoy living here, so it is a matter of establishing a mental balance and not focussing excessively on the negative.
There are some particularly pointless stress raisers emanating from outside Transylvania which do annoy me. One is the pervading media prejudice against this country. The barrage of xenophobic newspaper articles (especially in Britain) about "Romanian gypsies" damages our business through dissuading people from booking. Dishonest charity fundraising (again, especially in Britain) portraying Romania as full of suffering people and animals damages tourism. The lack of any desire to co-operate within the equestrian tourism industry (much of which is run by expatriates) and the way in which some resort to dishonesty and dirty tricks to siphon trade from others is irritating (though, fortunately, not very effective).
The way in which EU regulations are, slowly but surely, destroying rural life and sustainable farming across Eastern Europe is a still-unfolding tragedy. My near-namesake Sir Julian Rose of the International Coalition to Protect the Polish Countryside wrote: How they hate small, independent farmers! I know first hand having spoken with the committee responsible for negotiating Poland's entry into the EU (2004). Quite simply, I was informed, the objective is to remove approx. 1 million small, ecologically friendly, family farmers from the land and replace them with modern monocultural agribusinesses designed to supply the super markets of Europe with bland, tastless and cheap food. In the jargon is is called "restructurisation".
That, more or less, is what Communism set out to do within the Soviet Bloc. Replace ownership and incentive with obligation and propaganda. Don't think that everyone was equal back then. The leaders and aparatchiks lived well, surrounded by luxury, just as the bosses and aparatchiks of agribusiness do today. Every road seems to lead to some tyranny or other. I was going to write that, perhaps, this is the biggest cause of stress, seeing a way of life destroyed and millions of proud farmers made into wage slaves so that Tesco and Walmart can make more money through selling rubbish to the ignorant. However, this gaping open wound is more of a tragedy, a deep and continual pain that accompanies one throughout every day. Witnessing it is like slowly dying. As time passes, I begin to see what Jesus meant when He said: "You are in this world, but not of it." Perhaps this is the lesson that I was brought here to learn?